I wouldn't even begin to know how to deal with the situation you and your family are going through. I have prayed and God knows what is best but I have found trusting in Him will hopefully bring you peace.
I am not able to watch the game because we don't have cable. I was keeping up with it on al.com's live updates. Don't you know those panty-waist bammers at al.com who have to post these updates are seeing their rear ends pucker up over this.