DKW 86

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  1. And overall birth rates are down all over the US and Europe. All maturing cultures do this. See any economist anywhere. Maybe those alternatives to Vag Intercourse are working too... ;-) I am sorry to hear that about your Dad tho. I know you read my PM. I have a lot of emotion bottled up in this as well. Seeing kids crapped on does it to me. When a young lady grows up not getting to spend time with her dad, it leaves a huge hole in her soul. She often ends up seeking attention from other men. Boys are the same way. They end up being raised wondering where's Dad? Mom's do the best they can, but it never is enough. Girl's need to be Princesses, and Boys need to know their Dads.
  2. I really, deep down like the entire post. Seriously. I want to put some asses in jail. I have called the law myself and had to help a friend out a time or two myself. My best friend for most of the time I have been on this board, a highly decorated, wounded in combat, Navy Seal, well...he is a SD too. We did not know until the Wisconsin DHR came looking for him. He owed $30-40K and had cheated his kids out of everything. Drove a truck and got paid under the table. As soon as I found out I got him to go make peace with his kids and for about 18 months he was acting like the man i thought he was. He then went right back to being the SD he always was. We havent spoken since.
  3. So in other words...Do Nothing...We have been teaching sex education for almost 4 decades. Anyone happy where we are? That is an obvious no! Other posters here said the same thing. More Sex Education? Is that all you got? Really? In case you havent noticed, no one is listening, no one cares. Why should they? They have no reason to listen. I asked to put some policy behind making it more costly to just keep failing. There is a huge difference in teaching people to "Know what to do" and getting people motivated to actually "DO SOMETHING." I said: "Let's make the outcomes more costly, so as to change the behaviors." You say: "No, let's just keep doing what's failing." I gave alternatives to the status quo. "Let's try to change the sexual practices even a small bit. Lets try and shift the behaviors." You say: "No, let's just keep doing what's failing." Yea...Just keep doing the same failing thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over getting the same results. Please dont try anything new at all. Lets just keep saying and doing the same things we have said and done for around 4 decades, it will all get better THIS TIME...Right. <bfer> Let's just keep having dead beat SDs and lets just let them keep getting women pregnant. It's only the kids that get hurt in all this, and NO ONE cares about them anyway.
  4. Then essentially you think nothing needs to happen and we cant make anything any better. Sad.
  5. Again, this is too funny. And i suspect I have tapped into a nerve with some of you. Sex is absolutely natural and wonderful etc. We are certainly programmed for it, no doubt. There are whole other sides to sex to be explored tho. Like I said, Do we need a Sex Ed Course here? Vaginal Intercourse is not the only option. ACDC School for the Sexually Adventurous. Just for starters....
  6. Man, this is getting really tiring. I never said one word about jail time. Garnish the checks, stop them from getting driver's licenses, stop Pell Grants, seize tax refunds, etc, there are plenty of options. Jail time could be part of the solution later on. They cant pay support if they are in jail. Also, make the support really hurt. Make it higher than it is now. What do you propose to do then? Just let it rock on as it is now? If the man doesnt get her pregnant, then nothing bad happens. But you have to get society to change their behaviors. We need and want them moving away from Vaginal Intercourse. There are many just as satisfying options available. I have seen some men work construction and get paid under the table to avoid child support. They havent filed taxes in decades. One fellow owed $30K in child support and yet the courts allowed him to get his inheritance check for $40K when his momma passed. We can certainly do better.
  7. Brother, we are now here. This is the place where you and I actually 100% agree. We have gone thru the history of high schools that gave away birth control and actually watched as the number of teen pregnancies went up. Teens, well, even the most educated teen is still just a teen and they all and we all make and made bad decisions. You cant make anyone change their behavior while they are allowed to totally get a pass on any consequences. Once consequences kick in, like all animals, behavior will change. IE when a male impregnates a female, that male should be DNA tested and if they are the father they should IMMEDIATELY be on the hook for child support. You forever alter few young men's lives and the rest will figure it out. Make it painful. Make it life-changing. Mr-I-Wont-Wear-A-Condom suddenly sees his Mustang GT and chasing skirts life turn into a compact truck with a baby seat or a 4 door Elantra with Baby Seat and job and things will change quickly. I was asked yesterday by my daughter, Emilee, to attend her sperm donor's 4-5-6th? wedding. I dont even keep up the bastard's lies anymore. Emilee is so mad at her SD that she asked me to go with her. She wanted his family to see her real Dad. The damage the SD has done her, the money he owes her, the way he treats her all add up. When i dated her Mom, I recognized that Emilee was the package deal. I traded in my two door Prelude off for a Taurus. She went along on a lot of, but not all of our dates. (We had the weekends the sperm donor did actually show up and take Emilee, as few as they were.) Last Fathers day she gave me this in front of our my men's group at church. Most of the folks at our church didnt know I wasnt her Father. You see, I know a lot about this. Even today, the SDs get away with just about murder. DHR does work and my wife beat the bastard silly in court multiple times, but still he fought and eventually it was just not worth the hassle. You make things real for the men involved and "Sexual Creativity" will work. But you have to make it painful to get the change started. I think the drop in abortions during the Obama years was due to courts getting in the faces more and more steadily with the men. Men Cause 100% of Unwanted Pregnancies https://medium.com/s/can-we-talk/men-cause-100-of-unwanted-pregnancies-eb0e8288a7e5 As a mother of six and a Mormon, I have a good understanding of arguments surrounding abortion, religious and otherwise. When I hear men discussing women’s reproductive rights, I’m often left with the thought that they have zero interest in stopping abortion. If you want to prevent abortion, you need to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Men seem unable (or unwilling) to admit that they cause 100% of them. I realize that’s a bold statement. You’re likely thinking, “Wait. It takes two to tango!” While I fully agree with you in the case of intentional pregnancies, I argue that all unwanted pregnancies are caused by the irresponsible ejaculations of men. All of them. Don’t believe me? Let’s start with this: A woman’s egg is only fertile for about two days each month. Yes, there are exceptions, because nature. But one egg which is fertile two days each month is the baseline. And those fertile eggs are produced for a limited number of years. This means, on average, women are fertile for about 24 days per year. But men are fertile 365 days a year. In fact, if you’re a man who ejaculates multiple times a day, you could cause multiple pregnancies daily. In theory, a man could cause 1000+ unwanted pregnancies in just one year. While it’s true that sperm gets crappier as men age, it doesn’t have a fertility expiration date; men can cause unwanted pregnancies from puberty until death. So, starting with basic fertility stats and the calendar, it’s easy to see that men are the issue here. “But what about birth control?” you might ask. “ If a woman can manage to figure out how to get an abortion, surely she can use birth control to avoid unwanted pregnancy, right?” Great question. Modern birth control for women is possibly the most important invention of the last century, and I’m very grateful for it. It’s also brutal. The side effects for many women include migraines, mood swings, decreased libido, depression, severe cramps, heavy bleeding, aneurysm — and that’s just a small fraction of them. Discouragingly, a promising study on a new male contraceptive was canceled in large part due to… (wait for it)… side effects. To be clear, this list of side effects was about one-third as long as the known side effects for commonly used women’s contraception. There’s a lot to unpack in that story alone. I’ll simply point out that, as a society, we really don’t mind if women suffer, physically or mentally, as long as it makes things easier for men. But, men, I’ve got good news. Even with the horrible side effects, women are (amazingly!) very willing to use birth control. Unfortunately, it’s harder to get than it should be, but that doesn’t keep women from trying. Birth control options for women require a doctor’s appointment — sometimes multiple doctor’s appointments — and a prescription. They’re not always free, and often not cheap. Some are actually trying to make female birth control options more expensive by allowing insurance companies to refuse to cover them. In addition, contraceptive options for women can’t be easily acquired at the last minute. In most cases, they don’t work instantly. The pill requires consistent daily use and doesn’t leave much room for mistakes, forgetfulness, or unexpected disruptions to daily schedules. Again, the side effects can be brutal — and not just in rare cases. Despite the hassle and side effects, I’m still grateful for birth control. (Please don’t take it away.)But it’s critical to understand that women’s birth control isn’t simple or easy. In contrast, let’s look at birth control for men — i.e., condoms. They’re readily available at all hours, inexpensive, convenient, and don’t require a prescription. They’re effective and work on demand, instantly. They don’t cause aneurysms, mood swings, or debilitating cramps. Men can keep them stocked up just in case, so they’re always prepared. They can be easily used at the last minute. I mean, condoms are magic! So much easier than birth control options for women. As a bonus, most women are totally on board with condoms. They keep us from getting STDs. They don’t lessen our pleasure during sex or prevent us from climaxing. The best part? Cleanup is so much easier — no waddling to the toilet as jizz drips down our legs. So why would there ever be unwanted pregnancies? Why don’t men just use condoms every time they have sex? Seems so simple, right? Oh. I remember. Men don’t love condoms. In fact, it’s very, very common for men to pressure women to have sex without a condom. It’s also not unheard of for men to remove the condom during sex without the women’s permission or knowledge. (Pro tip: That’s assault.) Why would men want to have sex without a condom? Because, for the precious minutes when they’re penetrating their partner, not wearing a condom gives them more pleasure. So… that would mean some men are willing to risk getting a woman pregnant — which means literally risking her life, her health, her social status, her relationships, and her career — so they can experience a few minutes of slightly increased pleasure. Is this for real? Yes. Yes, it is.
  8. Almost 200 countries have teamed up to combat plastic pollution, but the US abstained. https://www.facebook.com/CenkUygurOfficial/videos/2036862799758792/ I cant give link to the video directly so I use FB. This really upsets me. Who in the world doesnt know that plastic is an issue?
  9. No, not in the least. You want to talk about the women. There are other lives at stake here. There is something other than just blind adherence to dogma. The women, and the men, can put an end to pregnancies by just being a lil creative in their behavior...
  10. To whomever did the Facepalm, you are part of the problem...
  11. I am unconvinced at the religion part. I think religion thru out the ages has been used by the Elite to control and manipulate the average people. I define Religion as that set of rules that a body of old men tried and used to control others with while almost always excusing their own bad behavior. True Christianity is about a living relationship to a Being, or is supposed to be. Christianity is not a set of rules to be strictly enforced. It may be more like Rules you adopt because you have a relationship to a Loving God. If you love God, then you will not do things to offend Him. You will not be reacting to just another set of rules decreed from the priests. I know this way too nuanced for some, but it how you go from being a "mindless religious adherent" to an "Intellectually Active and Engaged Servant." It is the difference between being a mindless drone and being a loving contented follower.
  12. I read the article as 'The police, enemy of the people." Why would the police care if the details of a journalist's death were 1) accurate? 2) verifiable? Not trying to be a conspiracy theorist here but...Why are we seeing this complete overreaction to whistleblowers? Assange, Manning, Snowden, et al as long as they do not openly endanger a US asset to the point of death, they are heroes. Whoever hacked the DNC emails may have indeed cost HRC the election, but is the DNC not supposedly better for it? Is everyone not better for it? Now some will say that "HRC is better than DJT as President" to which i agree. But if the truth will out, Bernie was the one vastly more supported than HRC, would have beaten Trump soundly according to many studies, and should actually be President. So while some here will never understand the nuance, only HRC could abuse the public's confidence so much she turned herself into a liability. Why have a personal email server? Why has the DNC Server never been seen by real legitimate law enforcement? Why did DWS et al conspire to ensure HRC won the primaries rather than ensuring the process was fair? Some think that HRC's Email Server was THE damaging story. I think it was only ONE OF the damaging stories. The DNC Email Hack was enough to piss off enough Liberal Democrats that they are now dividing the party with the BS inspired Justice Democrats being the true left and the Perez side being the Wall Street Owned "Corporate Democrats." Those pissed off Dems didnt go to the polls with anything like the enthusiasm needed to propel HRC to the win. Look at the true state of the Party. The Corp Dems and their friends in the media are once again trying to knee cap the Sanders Campaign. They are once again picking/choosing a favorite for the Party and lining up behind him, Biden. They are making the same mistakes they made in 2016. They have not learned anything. The Democrats have 23+ people running for President. Some are indeed running for down the road, however. The True List of those capable of winning the nomination is likely the Top 3-4 Candidates right now. Biden, Sanders, Warren, Harris, and Buttigieg. They are the 5 that seem to bounce in and out of the Top 3-4 list. The DNC has let it be known that Biden is the chosen one this time. Trouble is that once Primary Season gets here, Biden is going to be Biden and make gaffe after gaffe. His history with Plagiarism, . Anita Hill, Supporting Too Many Wars, and looking like a #METOO Dinosaur is going to play out and likely kill his bid. I say all that to say this: We need whistleblowers. We need and want people releasing what the govt may be up to. Does anyone fault Edward Snowden now? Did his actions not lead to at least some reforms in the NSA? When I see the govt trying this hard, and as hard as the Obama Administration tried to squelch Leaks and WhistleBlowers I just cant think it is a good thing overall.
  13. I am not "okay" with that, but I am also not okay with forcing a woman to proceed with a pregnancy that is the result of an illegal and or violent act. Like most of the nation, I recognize this is not a clean black-white issue in some areas.
  14. Please stop. You are completely wasting your time here. The Pro-Abortion Crowd HAVE to PRETEND to have Enumerated Rights for Unborn Babies or their entire position falls apart. The Constitution only limits and enumerates the Rights of the Govt. and leaves all other rights as assumed to the Individual. Now, that is completely contrary to the entire philosophy of the Pro-Abortion Crowd. They have to completely stand reality on its head to make their case. Like I said. This is completely contrary to everything most understand about the Constitution, but it is what it is....