Brother JJ, I agree with about everything you have said in your posts on this subject. One thing I see is you are being attacked by what the Bible defines as fools (Proverbs 18:2---A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion.) I have found that it is better to make your points from God's Word to fools once or twice at the most and then don't let them suck you into an argument (Proverbs 26:4---Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself.) Proverbs 29:9---If a wise man has an argument with a fool, the fool only rages and laughs, and there is no quiet.
I sincerely don't believe that God would put so many verses, and this is just a few, in His Word if it was not a very important issue.
You have made your points to these people and have doubled down on them, and I think you should consider moving on from them.
Just some brotherly advice from a fellow Christian. God bless.